VIP “Buddies” and other volunteers increase their appreciation of the individuals with special needs. They find their lives greatly enriched by their involvement with their new VIP friends. Buddies are non-disabled persons who assist VIP players on the field. Buddies who assist VIP players on the field have a life-changing experience. For the first time, perhaps, they are interacting with a special needs individual. They witness the effort and determination as many players struggle with physical limitations but never give up. They learn to see and appreciate them as people, and form friendships with them. They will most likely never view people with disabilities in the same way again. What an education…and it’s free!
It is essential to have a number of buddies on hand for beginning VIP players who will need them. The best buddies are peers of the players—not parents. Some nervous parents will find it hard to “let go.” This is why it is essential for buddies to introduce themselves at the pre-season parent meeting and to let parents know that their preferred role is a supportive – not active – one.
The best buddies are peers of the players: older elementary, middle school, high school, and even college students. As there will likely be a wider age range when just getting started—unless there are enough players to divide into age groups—recruit an age range of buddies to facilitate appropriate pairing.
For parents of these children or adults who thought they would never see their child playing a sport or making new friends, VIP gives them joy and hope. Parents are able to relax and enjoy watching their children having fun like other kids, perhaps for the first time.
The VIP Program offers acceptance and a sense of belonging, and carries through one of the six principal philosophies of AYSO: Everybody Plays.
The AYSO VIP Program was officially launched in 1991 for players with physical and/or mental disabilities. At that time and for some years following its inception, participation in the program was limited to ambulatory children through the age of 18. Several years later the ambulatory restriction was removed and the age limit extended to the length of time the player remained in school, which varied from state to state.
In 1999, recognizing a VIP player's need for ongoing fitness and leisure activities into adulthood, the AYSO National Board of Directors removed the upper age limit for VIP players entirely. The minimum age corresponds to AYSO's age eligibility – currently 4 years of age by July 31 prior to the start of the playing season or, in some Regions with permission of the Section Director, by the date of the Region's first organized activity – camp, practice or game.
Diamond Bar AYSO has had a thriving VIP Program for more than 15 years. The VIP matches are an inspiration to all who have a chance to come out and watch. Games are played every Saturday of the regular season.
Region 31’s VIP Program is always accepting new players and looking for energetic Buddies. If you’d like to get involved and make a difference in the lives of our Very Important Players, please contact
Araceli Castillo.